10 Things In Women That Turn Men Off

It has been long since you have been in a relationship but you still feel weak in your knees every time you go out with him on a date. This is a common fear that lurks in the heart of every couple. The reason is purely psychological and your relationship might just be perfect. But still, before going out every time, you devote a fairly large amount of time in getting ready. The same applies for men also but usually it is women who are to a certain extent overtly concerned to hold the attention of the man. It is necessary to keep your lover interested in you and so care should be taken about not doing anything that may make him think otherwise.

For many women this is a genuine problem. They just don't know how to handle the situation and lose an opportunity for a prospective relationship. That is why this needs to be handled cautiously. So, whether it is an old relationship or a new one in the making, it is crucial that women keep in mind to portray themselves with confidence and give out the right vibe to their male counterparts.

Some quick tips can make the work easier for women:

• On a date, dress well. It is a well known fact that men like well groomed women. Wear a dress in which you are comfortable but look good. Be simple and that might just do the trick.
• Choose a topic of conversation on which you both can talk. Make it interesting and humorous. Be wise in whatever you say and don't leave loose ends. Avoid being a chatterbox and don't say anything too personal or embarrassing.
• Be presentable when you are out with the special man in your life. Avoid using too high a make up, keep your nails trimmed and well manicured and your hair stylish. A good physical appearance is necessary to make him notice you.
• Try to resist yourself from interrupting him when he is speaking on a topic. Give him equal opportunity. Don't laugh at whatever he says or compliment him unnecessarily on everything. This might make him feel that you are desperate to make an impression on him and are actually pretending.
• Do not go on asking questions which you know irritates him. Be a little understanding and give him an opportunity to explain. Nagging him and accusing him for everything can surely turn him off.
• Avoid asking him questions about how much he earns. This can make him feel that you are only interested in his finances.
• Do not ask him anything related to his past relationships. This would be deliberately hurting him. Also refrain yourself from saying anything about your past relationship, unless asked.
• If you have been in a relationship for long, then also do not bring any comparison between his family and yours. Constant comparison may make him feel that you don't hold a good opinion about his family.
• While you are out with the love of your life, make sure that your attention is only on him. Noticing someone else or being distracted towards another man in his presence can hurt his self esteem and surely turn him off.
  

If you are out on the very first date of your life, then make sure that serious topics like marriage and children are reserved for the future. It is important to know each other better than looking for strong commitment in the very first meeting.